She Was Rare

Like a red diamond on display,
admired from a distance.
Waiting for the day to break away,
but keep getting met with resistance.

My heart smoothed with vantablack,
looking empty, but filled with just.
Waiting for it to be swept back,
but constantly filled with cosmic dust.

A total eclipse happening once,
hiding behind the facade.
Hiding behind all fronts,
despite being attractive like a lighting rod.

Ancient Rome concrete,
where stories lie.
Never admitting to defeat,
building strength, and intensify.

Silence of the mind,
an impossible task.
Coming undone, unconfined,
finally showing what’s under the mask.

Hardly touched, like lunar rocks,
spoken of but rarely experienced.
Can’t contain like Pandora’s Box,
once experienced like an euphoriant.

Her love was like a natural pearl,
wild, free, but hardly produced.
But she cried for it to be unfurled,
but becomes more rare as reduced.

An amber with no imperfections,
hard to find, but so divine.
Never receiving reciprocal affections,
but kater seen on others’ shrine.

A single snowflake drifting in,
unlike any other you’ll ever find.
Feeling the regret deep within,
all because he was blind.

The Mona Lisa, appreciated too late,
she was a force that imprinted deep.
One that you cannot recreate,
but you’ll dream about her in your sleep.

A fingerprint on the heart,
no one will compare to her.
You’ll regret the day of depart,
she was the the rarest thing to occur.

Never Enough

I unstitched my soul, thread by thread,
Unveiled the bruises where my heart had bled.
You watched, and listened, as I stressed
That I’ve never been enough, even at my best.


I placed my truth in your open heart,
A fragile thing we never meant to start.
You showed empathy and held me close,
And let you see my darkest shadows.
My words hung heavy, raw and bare,
“I’m broken,” I strongly declared.

You turned away, unmoved, no regard
While I stood bleeding and scarred.
Now echoes haunt the hollow space
Where once I begged for your embrace.
I gave you all, my breath, my trust
But love was never for me to entrust.

So go, walk on, and leave me here,
Among the ghosts of what was sincere.
I bared it all, my ruin, my pain,
And you walked away, leaving me in chains.

11/29/2025

Our Purpose

Sometimes life is a lantern,
meant to guide those in need.
When some feel abandoned,
we come to intercede.

Our purpose won’t scream,
and make itself known.
It comes to us through quiet dreams,
and we’ll admire it like a precious stone.

We aren’t prisoners to one calling,
as there are so many constellations.
When we find it, it can be enthralling,
and it’ll impact future generations.

Every shadow, even flawed, has purpose,
but it may not make sense in the moment.
Not living life is a disservice;
we all reach atonement.

Every bad thing that happens is a message,
and every good thing is a reward.
We’ll always get out of the wreckage,
because we’ll always be restored.

We’re all bound to reflect on life,
like, “Why are we here?”
Purpose carved in glory and strife,
and walking through joy and fear.

11/20/2025

Broken to Brilliant

You broke what you held,
yet I grew golden from the damage.
Now you drown in the bye you compelled,
but now I have the advantage.

Thiving came to me private,
showing me I can be self-reliant.
No longer am I compliant.
I’m more myself and vibrant.

My laughter fills the sky with every hue,
because of all the hurt I outgrew.
Life has felt more anew,
despite everything I’ve been through.

I’ll sing and dance in the rain,
and I won’t hold any disdain.
And this is how I shall remain.
This is all I’ve ever wanted to attain.

The light in me that faded is now radiant.
Others say I’ve never been so vibrant.
Finally feeling like I’m in alignment.
I’m out of my own confinement.

11/19/2025


Tips for New Teachers: What I Wish I Knew

Starting a teaching career can be overwhelming, especially without the support of a comprehensive teacher preparation program. The transition into the classroom often brings anxiety and uncertainty.

My journey was unique. I was assigned two campuses while managing five-course preps. At first glance, this might seem daunting to most, and truthfully, it was a significant challenge. However, this experience provided invaluable lessons. The contrasting cultures and demographics of the two campuses broadened my perspective, and the strong support system at one of the schools played a crucial role in my growth.

Now, fifteen years later, here’s what I wish I had known as a new teacher:

Ask Questions: The Key to Growth as a New Teacher

As a new teacher, you don’t know what you don’t know. The best way to navigate the learning curve is by asking questions—whether to colleagues in your content area, teachers in your hallway, or those with similar teaching experiences. These conversations will provide some of the most valuable insights as you establish yourself in the classroom.

Asking questions is essential to success, from lesson planning and classroom management to scheduling and parent communication. Even after fifteen years in the profession, I continue to seek advice from my peers. Every school has its own culture, and what works in one environment may not be effective in another. If you transition to a new campus, district, or leadership team, take the time to understand the expectations and dynamics of your new setting.

Not Sure What to Ask? Start Here.

To help you navigate your first few months, consider asking:

  • Student Expectations: What are the arrival, dismissal, and transition procedures?
  • Student Demographics: What should I know about our student population?
  • Curriculum & Pacing: Is there a district-mandated curriculum or pacing guide?
  • Technology Resources: What tools are available for teachers and students?
  • Professional Development: What training opportunities are offered?
  • Observations: Am I allowed to observe other teachers on and off campus?
  • Administrator Feedback: How do administrators provide feedback?
  • Campus Routines: What are the key procedures (e.g., CHAMPS, lunch routines, hallway transitions)?
  • Parent Communication: What is the preferred method for contacting parents? Am I required to document interactions?
  • Student Accommodations: How do I track 504 and IEP accommodations, and where is this information recorded?

You’ll gain confidence and build a strong foundation for your teaching career by actively seeking guidance. Never hesitate to ask—every question brings you one step closer to success.

Beg, Borrow, Steal, Adapt, and Train: Learning from Others as a New Teacher

One of the most valuable things you can do as a new teacher is learn from those around you. This includes colleagues within your building, educators from other schools, professional networks, social media, and online teaching resources such as Teachers Pay Teachers. With so many tools and sources of inspiration available, it can feel overwhelming to know where to start.

Recommendations for Expanding Your Knowledge

  • Explore District and Regional Trainings – Contact your district about in-person or digital training opportunities. Many states also have regional education offices that offer professional development for teachers. They may provide additional training options if you’re part of a union. Before enrolling, confirm whether the training counts toward the required professional development hours.
  • Join Webinars for Educational Technology – Many platforms, such as Canva, Nearpod, and IXL, offer free webinars to help teachers maximize student engagement and learning through their tools.
  • Engage with Social Media Communities – Follow experienced educators on Twitter, Instagram, and TikTok. Many share valuable teaching strategies, classroom management tips, and creative lesson ideas, often with real-life implementation examples.
  • Curate and Adapt What Works for You – No single resource or lesson perfectly fits your teaching style, schedule, or classroom structure. Be selective—take what aligns with your needs, modify where necessary, and leave out what doesn’t work. Remember that different schools follow different schedules, such as block scheduling versus shorter class periods, so flexibility is key.

Leveraging the wealth of knowledge from your professional community can help you build a strong foundation and continue evolving as an educator. Teaching is a collaborative profession—embrace the shared wisdom, and don’t be afraid to adjust to fit your unique classroom environment.

Be Yourself: The Power of Authentic Teaching

Authenticity is key to long-term success and reduced stress in teaching. Stay true to your teaching style and preferences. If interactive notebooks aren’t your thing, don’t feel pressured to use them. Teaching should balance innovation and comfort—trying new strategies is valuable, but forcing yourself into methods that don’t align with your style can lead to unnecessary stress. I believe in experimenting with different approaches at least once, but if something doesn’t work for you, it’s okay to let it go. What works for one teacher may not work for another, and that’s perfectly fine.

Building Relationships: The Foundation of Effective Teaching

Strong student relationships are essential for a successful classroom. Dedicate at least the first few days to getting to know your students. These conversations may initially feel surface-level—discussing favorite sports, candy, TV shows, or music—but they serve as a starting point for deeper connections. When asking students about their interests, be sure to share your own—modeling this interaction fosters mutual trust and engagement.

As the year progresses, find ways to incorporate personal connections into your curriculum. This can be done through warm-ups, exit tickets, or content-related discussions. For an English teacher, personal reflections and discussions are naturally woven into lessons, but small moments for connection are possible even in subjects like math. A little effort goes a long way in building trust and rapport.

However, always maintain professional boundaries. Avoid oversharing personal details, and remember that as a teacher, you are a mandated reporter. Some students face challenges far beyond their years; you may hear complex stories. If a student shares something concerning, you must report it appropriately.

By remaining authentic and prioritizing relationships, you can create a supportive and engaging learning environment where you and your students can thrive.

You Are Your Best Advocate

Above all, remember that you are your strongest advocate. Stay true to your values and teaching philosophy, and never lose sight of what matters most. This ties back to authenticity—finding fulfillment in this profession requires staying aligned with your core beliefs and principles.

That said, being true to yourself does not mean imposing personal views or political opinions on students. In many states, doing so is against ethical guidelines. Instead, model the values you believe in through your actions. If family is important to you, foster a classroom environment that feels like a supportive community rather than expecting students to conform to a traditional family structure. If you believe in equality, empower all students to express their perspectives respectfully rather than promoting a singular viewpoint. Demonstrating fairness, inclusivity, and critical thinking allows students to develop their values in an unbiased environment.

Applying these foundational principles can make your first year as a teacher successful. While there are countless strategies to help you navigate this journey, too much advice at once can become overwhelming. Start small, implement changes gradually, and refine your approach over time. Teaching is a lifelong learning process—embrace it with confidence and authenticity.

Balancing Work and Life: Strategies for Achieving a Healthy Work-Life Balance

In today’s fast-paced world, achieving a healthy work-life balance has become increasingly challenging. With the rise of remote work and the blurred lines between personal and professional life, it’s easy to feel overwhelmed by the demands of both. However, maintaining balance is essential for physical, emotional, and mental well-being. This blog explores key strategies to help manage the competing priorities of work and life while maintaining health and happiness.

1. Set Clear Boundaries

One of the most critical steps in achieving work-life balance is establishing clear boundaries between work and personal time. Without boundaries, work can easily spill over into personal life, leading to burnout. According to a study by the American Psychological Association (APA), individuals who set firm boundaries between work and home life report lower stress levels and greater job satisfaction (APA, 2020).

Communicate your work hours to colleagues and supervisors, and resist the urge to check emails or respond to work messages after hours. Setting boundaries ensures you have time for rest, hobbies, and family, which is essential for long-term well-being.

2. Prioritize Time Management

Effective time management is another crucial aspect of balancing work and life. Prioritizing tasks based on importance and urgency allows you to focus on what matters most without feeling overwhelmed. The Eisenhower Matrix is a popular time management tool that categorizes tasks into four quadrants: urgent and important, important but not urgent, urgent but not necessary, and neither urgent nor essential (Covey, 1989).

Such strategies allow you to allocate time efficiently and avoid unnecessary stress. Additionally, scheduling regular breaks throughout the workday can help maintain focus and prevent burnout. Research suggests short breaks improve productivity and mental clarity (Fritz et al., 2011).

3. Embrace Flexibility

Flexibility is critical to achieving work-life balance, especially in today’s dynamic work environment. With the rise of remote work and flexible hours, many employees have more control over their schedules. This flexibility allows you to better balance personal commitments, such as family time or self-care, without sacrificing professional responsibilities.

However, flexibility also requires discipline. Establishing a daily routine that includes dedicated time for work, personal activities, and relaxation ensures that both areas of life receive attention. A study published in Harvard Business Review found that individuals who cultivated structured flexibility reported higher levels of job satisfaction and work-life balance (Kossek & Lautsch, 2018).

4. Learn to Say No

Overcommitting is a common pitfall that can hinder work-life balance. Whether taking on extra projects at work or agreeing to social events, constantly saying “yes” can leave you feeling stretched too thin. Learning to say “no” when necessary is vital for protecting your time and energy.

Saying no doesn’t mean neglecting responsibilities; it’s preserving your well-being. Assertive communication helps you manage your workload more effectively and maintain balance. A study in The Journal of Social Psychology found that individuals who practice assertiveness experience lower levels of stress and burnout (Smith et al., 2017).

5. Prioritize Self-Care

Self-care is often the first thing to be sacrificed when juggling work and personal life, but it is one of the most essential elements of a balanced life. Regular physical activity, proper nutrition, and adequate sleep are key to maintaining energy levels and mental clarity (Mayo Clinic, 2018).

Additionally, engaging in enjoyable activities—reading, spending time outdoors, or practicing mindfulness—helps reduce stress and recharge your mind. Prioritizing self-care makes it easier to approach both work and life with a positive attitude and greater resilience.

Conclusion

Achieving a healthy work-life balance is an ongoing process that requires intentional effort. You can create a more harmonious and fulfilling life by setting boundaries, managing time effectively, embracing flexibility, learning to say no, and prioritizing self-care. Balancing work and personal life enhances productivity and improves overall well-being and happiness.


References

  • American Psychological Association. (2020). Work-Life Balance Stress in America Survey.
  • Covey, S. (1989). The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People. Free Press.
  • Fritz, C., et al. (2011). Take a break: The benefits of pauses and breaks in work performance. Journal of Applied Psychology.
  • Kossek, E. E., & Lautsch, B. A. (2018). The dynamic relationship between work-life balance and job satisfaction. Harvard Business Review.
  • Mayo Clinic. (2018). Work-life balance: Tips to reclaim control.
  • Smith, R. E., et al. (2017). Assertiveness, stress, and psychological well-being in the workplace. The Journal of Social Psychology.